I am about as anti Arthur/Gwen as it gets, but honestly, all the mega-bashing is just getting dull now

Just jumping in to say me too! I'm pretty anti A/G and I'll gladly express my reasoning for this in a civilised fashion but all that mega bashing just gives slashers a bad name and I mean really; most of us are a delightful bunch of people!

Oh and; I'm sorry, but I literally cannot see why people seem to think his behaviour is any worse than it has ever been on that front

Agreed, again!